My Journey
"If it doesn’t challenge you, it doesn’t change you."
Who I Am
I am a life coach for solopreneurs and small-business owners, co-founder and advisor for Herd Spirit an equine-guided transformation program, and a leader in and facilitator of personal growth work for more than 25 years.
But I didn't start here... I've been on a journey of self-discovery most of my life. Let’s say that I’ve been trying to figure out who I am from a very young age.
Who I am separate from my father, my family, the legacy I come from. Trying to figure out how to be in the world authentically as myself.
When I left home for college and got away from the dictates of my dad, I kind of blew up. I got lost in life not knowing who I was or how to live my life without having someone there to control me.
Unsuccessful relationships, failed marriage, estrangement from my older daughters, along with a long bought of depression. I spent many years self-destructing, trying to find my truth from the outside in.
I was always great in work and social environments. I was a model employee and friend. But, in my personal world the relationship with my self and those closest to me was a complete disaster. This was because I was seeking validation from outside sources, just as I had learned from my father.
Finally, I reached a point where I knew things had to change. That to not only survive but truly thrive, I needed to do some serious and deep work. After intense therapy and inner-work, I committed to find my own truth, no matter how hard it was.
I spent several years of study with coaches, teachers, and mentors. They taught me answers to questions I didn’t even know I had! They showed me what it was like to be a real leader, living deeply present within myself and the world. They showed me how to live with a compassionate heart and a warrior's strength all at the same time. I began to create a new healthier masculine presence, committed to purpose, and living at my edge.
For the first time in my life I had permission to be fully me. It stoked a fire in me to live bigger, fuller, and more deeply present. And with each layer of growth, what became clear is that my truest self is a teacher, leader, and facilitator who is meant to be in service to others, guiding them towards their own truest path.
Now, because of all the work, I've been able to create a much different life. A life of joy, love, and fulfillment. I have an amazing and powerful wife and we've built an incredible family together. I’ve done hard work to heal the relationships with my older daughters, and I have been blessed to teach and guide others for the past 25+ years.
I focus on personal growth, empowerment, spiritual understanding, and leadership for my clients so they can truly embody lasting transformation… leading to life changing results!
My greatest professional joy is seeing clients succeed and grow.
So… now you know what brought me here.
The question is… what brought you?
Are you looking for answers, tired of repeating the same mistakes, feeling that there can be more but not sure how to find it?
Or are you seeking to create internal/external alignment, to bring greater clarity and awareness, unlocking your true potential and living your gifts into the world?
Let’s connect, and find out. We can have a deep conversation to help you gain answers, and begin to uncover what deep, lasting change could look like.
You have the answers you seek and the capabilities you desire, it's time to unlock your true potential.
It would be my greatest honor to talk with you.